Don't take yourself too serious

Today in a forum a few married women talked about their husbands and marriage. They're saying: 'I believe there are at least ten million men in this world, who are right for me, not only my husband.' 'My husband is lucky, because I picked him, but not other million men who also matchs me'. 'Of coz my husband is not the one and only'. 'If we split, I would easily find some one esle who is also suitable for me.' etc.

True, theoretically, it's right, there exists million of men who are good enough and right for you. According to the same theory, for one 'Right Man', there are also million of right-women existing and available in this world for him. That means there are billion right women for these million men who are right for you. The million-right-men pond doesn't only belong to you, but belong to the billion-right-women sea. Vice versa. Nobody sitting there wait you to pick him/her. They also have their large choice possibility.

Apart from that, even if all of the million Right Men wait in their lives for you, how big is the probability that you will meet and encounter them, recognize them(these who are right for you), and go through all of the conflicts and troubles and stay togather, which is based on the premise that these right men think you're right for them too. If thinking of this way, your probability of meeting a right person is very small, but not the number of million!

In one word, no matter you're man or woman: If you feel you already met the right one, cherish it! You dropped your other million choices, he did the same too. So do not take yourself too serious, unless you think you're the God.   

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