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T and S had a fight at weekend.
In evening S noticed that T suddenly stood up and grasped some pasters(post-it) and wrote something on them. Out of curiosity, S went to pick them up and tried to see what they were, but was stopped by T: ''Hey, you wouldn't understand what I wrote.'' However S ignored T (He wanted to get these papers back) and finished reading these scrips, and of coz she didn't really get them because that's some hints T wrote for his new story (Actually the important thing to S is not to understand these scrips but to have right to read and finish the reading). ''You began a new story? Why you didn't tell me?'' ''Why must I tell you about that?'' S pouted and mumbled:''I'm treated just like a moving furniture in this apartment.''
The event was not finished even when they went to bed.
T:''I don't like it that I feel I'm controlled''(accusing S requires too much). ''Control?'' S got upset by this word and rose her voice:''Ok, I will stop 'controlling' you, also I will stop asking you these difficult questions, and let you live the life you want and I won't let myself to be bothered by any tiny thing from you. Is that ok?'' ''You mean we should live separate lives or we should divorce?'' S was louder:''What?! First you said I control you, and now you want to divorce me?!''
''No,no, of coz I don't want a divorce, but the life you described earlier sounds like a divorce,'' explained T. ''But you said firstly that you don't like the life in which I 'control' you! What exactly you want from me?'' T said nothing but hugged S and S said to T:''Pls come back to your side, we should sleep now (They lay on the side which belongs to S). T rejected to move:''We share everything, so I can lie here with you.'' ''No, we don't share everything.'' ''What's the thing we don't share?'' S pouted again:''The scrips! you even tried to stop me reading them.'' T laughed:''Give me another example.'' ''I already gave you the examle!'' S insisted. ''One more,pls,'' said T. ''Hey, why you want to 'control' me, I offered you one example and I don't want to say more, why you're forcing me?'' S answered and started to tickle T (to make him move to his side), subsequently S' arm got caught by T. S shouted:''Stop 'controlling' me!'' T laughed at S:'' You misuse this word 'control' now.'' S was still stubborn:'' Without repeating this word, I couldn't help you to understand what kind of nonsense you had said.'' S used her toes continually to tickle T (S practices Yoga, so she is very flexible). ''Unfair, unfair!'' T cried.
At the end, they kissed and fell asleep.
From this meaningless event which happens in every families, we can see at least three points:
1.Men are also very complicated.
2.Women are alreays right (especially in these kind of trifles).
3.Don't tickle aganist your wife, you won't win.
Moving furniture: S' definition of these partners who live togather but don't communicate any more.
Difficult questions: For example, once S went to an Interview, and was asked ''What your husband see of you when he is asked?'', S answered:Blah,blah....And when she came home and laid the question to T (What T would comment on S), T frowned and suffered:''It's difficult, I don't know what I should answer and I need at least half day to think about it'' S didn't get a answer. Sometimes this idea came to bother S:''If I'm too bad that my man can not even think of a simple good word to describe me?'' However, S will never know!